After defeating blood cancer, Jeff wants to give back

Posted January 24th, 2017 by Be The Match and filed in News, Patient Stories
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Jeff’s whole life changed when he was diagnosed with blood cancer. After numerous treatments, his doctor told him that his best chance for a cure was a bone marrow transplant. His doctors turned to Be The Match in search of an unrelated donor. In January of 2015, Jeff had his transplant.


Jeff, transplant recipient and Be The Match advocate

One year after receiving his life-saving bone marrow transplant, Jeff  has decided that an important and natural next step is advocating for others facing similar situations that he went through last year.

“I was inspired by having to face leukemia and fighting my way through the disease all the way to a successful bone marrow transplant,” Jeff said.

Currently, Jeff volunteers with Be The Match in the Peer Connect Program as a mentor for other marrow transplant recipients. Upon retiring from his law practice later this year, Jeff plans to fully enjoy his hobbies which include horses and music.  He also hopes to use his law background to help advocate with legislators and insurance organizations on behalf of transplant patients and their families.

Jeff says, “After staring death in the eye and coming through that, it felt natural that I would give back to the community and help in the fight to cure cancer as well as helping others who are going through it.”

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Help Increase Funding for Life-Saving Transplant Programs

Posted January 24th, 2017 by Be The Match and filed in News
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We need your help to make sure that Congress remembers the importance of the programs that fund Be The Match®, the CW Bill Young Cell Transplantation Program (Program) and the National Cord Blood Inventory (NCBI).

Capitol Building

Capitol Building

For each $1 million the Congress adds to the Program funding, 10,000 donors can be added to the registry. For each $1 million it adds to the NBCI, we can add 667 cord blood units.  Please send an email or social media message to your congressional representatives to ask for increased funding for these life-saving programs. Act now: Urge your legislators to continue funding Be The Match.

Every dollar allocated by Congress goes to increasing the number of donors and cord blood units on the registry, helping patients navigate the complexities of the health care system, and supporting research to discover and apply the best therapies to improve patient outcomes. Further ethnic diversity in registry members is extremely important as we continue to expand access to treat more diseases, such as sickle cell disease.

Program Funding Determined by April

Congress has until the end of April to fund the federal government through the end of Fiscal Year (FY) 2017. Funding for the CW Bill Young Cell Transplantation Program, which the National Marrow Donor Program®/Be The Match® operates under a contract with the Department of Health and Human Services, is part of these appropriations.

The legislation will also fund the National Cord Blood Inventory (NCBI) through the end of 2017. The House appropriations bill under consideration would maintain funding for the CW Bill Young Cell Transplantation Program at $22 million and increase funding for the NCBI by $5 million to $16 million.

The Senate bill would maintain current funding for both the CW Bill Young Cell Transplantation Program and NCBI ($11 million).  We anticipate that Congress will resolve these differences in the coming months and pass final legislation in mid- to late-April.

At the same time, Congress will begin the process for funding the federal government for FY 2018.  This process usually begins with a detailed budget request from the President. Given the transition to a new Administration, it is unlikely that we will see a detailed budget before late April or May. The congressional committees overseeing appropriations, however, are likely to start considering specific spending levels well before that time.  Final legislation appropriating funds for FY 2018 is unlikely to pass before September and might even be delayed until December 2017.

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New congress to address issues that will impact access to transplant

Posted January 24th, 2017 by Be The Match and filed in News
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On January 3, the 115th United States Congress was sworn-in in Washington, DC.  Although repealing “Obamacare” (also known as the Affordable Care Act) has dominated the news about this new Congress, it has a full plate of issues that it plans to address in the coming year.  Several of these issues will impact access to marrow and cord blood transplant:

  • C.W. Bill Young

    C.W. Bill Young

    Funding the CW Bill Young Cell Transplantation Program and the National Cord Blood Inventory through the end of Fiscal Year (FY) 2017 and for all of FY 2018. The CW Bill Young Cell Transplantation Program provides funding to support the Be The Match Registry®. And the National Cord Blood Inventory provides funding to support the collection and maintenance of cord blood units used for transplant.

    Each year, Congress must decide whether it will continue to fund these programs. This year Congress will finish the work it began in 2016 to appropriate funding through September 2017. It will also establish funding for October 2017 through September 2018. We need your help to advocate for continued funding of these programs that support our mission and help ensure patients have continued access to transplant.

  • Medicare payment reform. Both the U.S. House and Senate plan to address a variety of Medicare payment rulings in the coming year. These bills may include reforming hospital payments and could provide us with an opportunity to address the problem of Medicare rates not adequately covering the cost of acquiring bone marrow and cord blood for transplants.

We will seek comments this spring and fall from our advocate network to support efforts to improve Medicare reimbursement for transplant. Sign up to receive updates on these efforts.

  • Reauthorization of the State Children’s Health Insurance Program (CHIP) and potential Medicaid reform. The Congress also must review the CHIP program that provides health care coverage to millions of children across the country. This legislation may provide an opportunity to address ongoing concerns about State Medicaid programs as well.

We will continue to work with members of Congress to make sure that as policies evolve, Congress continues to protect access and remove barriers to life-saving transplants. And we’ll reach out to our advocates to support these efforts throughout the year.

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A family’s love shines bright: $1.25 million memorial gift supports clinical trials

Posted January 20th, 2017 by Be The Match and filed in News
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Jason Carter

Jason Carter

Jason Carter, of Wayzata, Minn., battled leukemia for 4½ years, and his family’s extensive search for clinical trials helped extend his life and their time together. Sadly, he passed away in May 2016. He was 28 years old.

“We hoped Jason would live long enough to find a cure,” said Jason’s parents, Robert and Diana Carter. “He tried every new treatment and new therapy possible. It was still not enough. Only 5 percent of cancer patients take part in clinical trials. That number must greatly increase for outcomes to improve more quickly.”

The Carter Family

The Carter Family

The challenges and frustrations the Carter family faced in their search for clinical trials inspired them to honor Jason’s life by donating $1.25 million to Be The Match Foundation to fund the Jason Carter Clinical Trials Program to help patients identify and enroll in clinical trials more efficiently.

“Jason wanted to make a difference” said Diana Carter. “We are thrilled to partner with Be The Match to improve this process and help other patients find the best treatment resources available. Together, we can help save lives.”

Bob and Diana Carter attending a "Thank You" celebration and program kick-off at Be The Match with CEO Jeffrey Chell, and Foundation team members

Bob and Diana Carter attending a “Thank You” celebration and program kick-off at Be The Match with CEO Jeffrey Chell, and Foundation team members

“This donation from the Carter family will have a profound impact on patients and families for years to come,” said Joy King, Senior Vice President of Philanthropy and Executive Director for Be The Match Foundation. “We could not be more honored and excited to carry out Jason’s legacy through this new program. We sincerely thank the Carter Family for their generosity and compassion for all patients.”

Learn more about the Jason Carter Clinical Trials Program.

In honor of the 2017 Martin Luther King, Jr. Day of Service, we honor super-volunteer Karen Milne, who dedicates her time and expertise to Be The Match®.

Posted January 13th, 2017 by Be The Match and filed in News
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Typically, when someone considers volunteering their time, they align with an organization or cause that has personally impacted their life. For Be The Match skills-based volunteer Karen Milne, the opposite scenario occurred – with no prior connection to the mission, she started volunteering her time and talents to Be The Match, and has impacted the organization and our employees in ways we couldn’t have imagined.

It all began when Karen retired from her career of 31 years as a legal assistant in a downtown law firm and knew that she wanted to spend her days volunteering in some capacity. Looking for opportunities to help, she thought of the NMDP/Be The Match as her firm had represented both for a few years. Mutual friends between her previous employer and Be The Match Foundation led to a phone call and quick realization that Karen would be a perfect volunteer for the annual Be The Match Gala. With experience in planning large events and campaigns, what started out as an intent to sporadically volunteer in her free time has led to an annual four-month commitment to organizing the Be The Match Gala Auction.

Working to help the present and future

Karen (second to the left), with the 2016 Be The Match Foundation service interns.

Karen (second to the left), with the 2016 Be The Match Foundation service interns.

Since 2013, Karen has given over 580 hours of her time to helping organize not only the Annual Gala’s auction, but also to mentor Be The Match Foundation service interns. Often referred to as “The Great Connector” among Foundation employees, Karen is able to lead the service intern team over the summer in assisting with the upcoming Gala, and connect their work with that of the core Foundation team. Her leadership has allowed the service interns to thrive, and gain valuable experience each summer in their work with the Foundation.

“By example, my parents taught me to always give back. This is a meaningful way to fulfill giving back. There is an anonymous quote that says, ‘A person’s most valuable asset is not a head full of knowledge; but a heart full of love, an ear ready to listen and a hand willing to help others.’ I want to always be that person and Be The Match helps me do that,” Karen says.

The Exception to the Rule

A typical volunteer for Be The Match gives approximately 17 hours per year, ranging in positions from in-person registration volunteers, event-day volunteers, and volunteers like Karen – who help with event preparation. Each year, Be The Match Foundation looks for volunteers they refer to as “Go Getters” to work on the annual gala. Being a “Go Getter” is more of a state of mind than anything. They are motivated individuals who go out of their way to make an impact on the service they’re offering.

While Karen technically volunteers as a “Go Getter”, her contribution of time and expertise goes far beyond the expectations of the role – she is the epitome of “the exception to the rule”. While she knows that she is in no way obligated to help out as much as she does, Karen still spends hours each year dedicated to the Be The Match mission – which includes spreading awareness. Her contributions are irreplaceable, and appreciated more than she knows.

Want to get involved too?

If you’re looking for ways to support Be The Match, volunteering for an event like the annual Be The Match Gala may be perfect for you! If you’re in the Twin Cities area, check out our Gala Volunteers page. You can also visit for information on other opportunities.

Why do I give? Because I feel grateful… and lucky

Posted January 9th, 2017 by Be The Match and filed in Patient Stories
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Transplant recipient and financial contributor Michael Stewart opens up about his relatively smooth transplant journey, and how he hopes to pay it forward to those who endure a different experience.

Michael Stewart, a husband and father of three teenage boys, is grateful for so many things in his life – including his transplant journey. In 2004, Michael was feeling fatigued, and so he set up a doctor appointment. As someone who “works too much” and travels a lot for his job, feeling tired was normal, but this time something felt “off.” Michael’s intuition was right, and after receiving lower than normal blood count tests, his doctors diagnosed him with hairy cell leukemia.

Michael received treatment for his illness, and within 6-7 weeks of treatment, everything felt like it was “back to normal.” Michael continued to be monitored for a while, but after 3-4 years they told him he no longer needed to come in for routine checks. His leukemia had come and gone, and Michael was ready to move on with his life.

Fast forward a few years, to 2013, and Michael started feeling fatigued again. He thought to himself, “I’m getting older and travelling too much… that must be it.” But just to be safe, Michael went back to his doctor. This time, his blood counts had bottomed-out. It seemed as though his hairy cell leukemia had come back. Only a few days later, Michael was admitted to the ICU with sepsis issues, which occur when the body’s immune response to an infection triggers inflammatory responses throughout the body. The inflammation brought on by sepsis can trigger a series of changes that can damage multiple organ systems, causing them to fail. It is also most dangerous in older patients or those with weakened immune systems from treatment – like Michael.

This time Michael spent more than 45 days in the hospital (with a few short visits back home), but his blood counts just weren’t bouncing back like they had in 2004. The doctors performed a biopsy of his bone marrow, which didn’t indicate anything additional was wrong. Michael again followed his intuition, and after not feeling back to 100%, he decided to meet with a doctor who specialized in hairy cell leukemia to see if he could figure out what might be wrong.

Near the end of 2013, Michael found out from his new doctor that he hadn’t suffered a re-occurrence of his hairy cell leukemia – he had in fact developed myelodysplastic syndrome (MDS). MDS affects the bone marrow and blood, causing the blood-forming cells in the marrow to slow down, or even stop, making all three types of blood cells: red blood cells, white blood cells and platelets. It was discovered that his MDS had likely been brought on by the two rounds of leukemia treatment he had received in the past, and the damage to his bone marrow was so severe that his blood counts couldn’t recover on their own. Michael’s doctor started him on a temporary treatment regimen, but the reality was, Michael would need a marrow transplant to survive.

Time for transplant

Michael with his 3 sons, living in their temporary home in Seattle, preparing for his upcoming transplant

Michael with his 3 sons, living in their temporary home in Seattle, preparing for his upcoming transplant

All of Michael’s siblings were tested, but none was a full match. As Michael continued his temporary treatment plan, his doctor started a search of the Be The Match Registry®, and luckily there were multiple match options identified. Although Michael felt like everything was back to normal – and his temporary treatment was working – he was told that every day he continued that treatment, his risk for developing yet another disease increased. Michael met with doctors at the Seattle Cancer Care Alliance and decided to be proactive by pursuing the marrow transplant while he was relatively healthy – knowing he would eventually need it – rather than waiting until his health stated to deteriorate. As a result, he and his family moved from Colorado to Washington to begin the process.

Although Michael had multiple match options identified through the Be The Match Registry, a few of the potential donors backed out for various reasons. Finally, a 24-year-old female – a complete stranger to Michael – came through. She was a 10 out of 10 match, and agreed to go through with donation to help save the life of someone she’d never met. Michael’s initial transplant date was scheduled for right after Thanksgiving, but after a few setbacks, it finally landed on New Year’s Eve. Michael rang in the New Year in arguably the most amazing way – receiving the life-saving marrow he desperately needed – from a complete stranger.

Michael's hospital whiteboard on the day of his transplant, and his "re-birthday"

Michael’s hospital whiteboard on the day of his transplant, and his “re-birthday”

Michael stayed near the clinic for a few months after transplant – with regular visits to the lab and clinic every day. He was allowed to work (from home) and spend time with his family, but he had to avoid public places and his energy levels were very low. At day 12 he engrafted – meaning his body accepted the donated marrow. Around day 45, he was finally able to see his dog again. And at day 98, he got to go home … 22 days earlier than expected.

While Michael was receiving treatment, his family was always by his side. In total, they spent about 150 days living together in a new state, but they embraced the experience and to this day they even look back on it fondly. Michael’s children were able to attend school at “The Hutch” along with other children whose family members were there receiving treatment, providing a sense of community and support that helped them through that difficult time.

Michael’s recovery has been phenomenal. Today, still less than a year out from his transplant date, Michael and his family are back in their home state of Colorado, and Michael is back to working full time and traveling. While he notices a lower ability to “bounce back” after a long travel day, he otherwise feels like he’s pretty much back to normal.

Thank you is not enough

As Michael reflects on his transplant journey, he feels grateful of course, but he also feels lucky. According to Michael, he had it “easy” – too easy, and too stress-free compared to so many of those who endure a long and frightening process, sometimes without a happy ending.

“No stress, no desperate pleas for friends and family to be tested. No social media campaign. Because many people all over the world decided to take the simple step of being tested, I had a match. I have a chance, and a very good one at that, to see my three boys graduate from high school, get married, have their own kids. All because someone did something for someone they didn’t even know and may never meet.”

– Michael Stewart

The Stewart's dog, minutes after arriving back home in Colorado after Michael's transplant journey - happy for things to be "back to normal"

The Stewart’s dog, minutes after arriving back home in Colorado after Michael’s transplant journey – happy for things to be “back to normal”

That is why, when Michael decided to give a large financial contribution of $25,000 to Be The Match, he did so out of pure gratefulness. Gratefulness for his relatively smooth transplant journey and positive outcome, especially knowing he had it easier than so many.

Michael is grateful to Be The Match for providing him with access to multiple donor match options, and so grateful for his donor who never hesitated to save a stranger’s life. She donated through bone marrow extraction which took 4-6 hours. A 24-year-old who was asked to spend all day at the hospital right before New Year’s Eve said “Of course I will,” and Michael is forever grateful for that. “Thank you isn’t enough … you just can’t even put that into words”, he says.

Michael is also determined to turn his gratefulness into action. He is dedicated to furthering the mission of Be The Match through his financial contribution and awareness efforts, to help those who have a harder time finding a match – particularly those with ethnically diverse backgrounds.

Michael worked with Keith Stout, Director of Major and Planned Gifts at Be The Match, to ensure that his financial contribution could help in a number of ways – financially assisting patients and their families, adding more potential marrow donors to the registry, and helping advance research to improve transplant outcomes. Michael hopes that his contribution can help ensure that one day no one has to wonder if they will find a match, let alone survive the process.

“I am blessed and lucky that I’ve had the outcome that I’ve had. Be The Match gave me the opportunity to have lots of matches. I’m a lucky beneficiary of what had already been accomplished before I needed a transplant, and the people who were already on the registry. Now I want to help grow the registry even more, so that other people can be told they have lots and lots of matches too.”

– Michael Stewart

Interested in joining Michael in supporting Be The Match?

Join the registry – you could be the match that someone is searching for.
Give – big or small, financial gifts help continue our mission to help patients and their families.
For more information on major gift opportunities contact Keith Stout, Director of Major and Planned Gifts, at 763-406-8150 or sstout@NMDP.ORG

Tips for managing your medicines after transplant

Posted January 9th, 2017 by Be The Match and filed in Patient Stories
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Taking your medicines as directed after transplant is important for your health, but it’s not easy to do.

Calley and Greg, both transplant recipients, knew that taking their medicines correctly and on time was very important. We talked with Calley and Greg to find out what worked for them.

Ila Saunders, PharmD, BCOP, sees many of the struggles people have managing medicines after transplant. We also talked to Ila to get advice from her on behalf of the Advocacy and Policy Working committee of the American Society for Blood and Marrow Transplantation (ASBMT) Pharmacy Special Interest Group.

Consider the following tips, and pick which ones work best for you.

Tip 1: Use a pill case that fits your needspills-2_260x150px

Depending on your health and treatment plan, decide whether a daily or weekly pillbox is best. Sometimes after transplant people have prescriptions that change frequently. This may be especially true in the first few months after transplant, or during treatment for complications such as graft-versus-host disease (GVHD). If your prescriptions are changing often, then a daily pillbox may be best. “You have to fill a daily pillbox every evening and you’ll be better organized when there are frequent changes to your medicines,” Ila says.

Calley had her transplant 2 years ago and now she uses a large weekly pillbox. She says this is the main way she keeps track of what medicines she needs to take. “The pillbox I have is larger than a normal one – it’s actually bigger than a standard size piece of paper. With that, I’m able to plan on filling it weekly on Sundays, and then I don’t have to worry about remembering which pills to take when during the week. This also helps to plan when medicines are going to run out. I call the pharmacist on Monday if I know that my prescription will be finished by the end of the week.”

Though it’s convenient, there are risks with a weekly pillbox. “I have seen one too many weekly pillboxes pop open. Then it’s hard to accurately identify each medicine and put it back in the correct location,” warns Ila.

Tip 2: Create a color-coded chart or system to keep track of doses and symptoms

Many people find it helpful to keep a list of all their medicines for reference. A medicine list can also be a useful way to chart and keep track of your pills. These lists may include the dose, the time and date a pill was taken, and any symptoms you have.

After Greg’s transplant in 2009, he left the hospital with nearly 30 pills to take each day. To help him manage all of the doses, he kept a binder full of spreadsheets that he would fill out and follow. “In the spreadsheet that we created, I would include spaces to check-off a medicine after I took it. I found it to be like a little success each day I could look forward to.”

Tip 3: Get help from others pills-1_260x150px

There’s a lot to keep track of after transplant. Having someone to help you organize your medicines can take pressure off of you while you’re recovering. Ask your caregiver or other loved ones for help organizing your medicines, and taking them according to your doctor’s instructions.

Your transplant team can also help. For example, your transplant pharmacist can help you learn about your prescriptions, organize your pillbox, and give you a list of all your medicines. “Use a team approach! Use a system that works well for you and your loved ones. This can take the burden off of you as you recover,” Ila says.

Tip 4: Ask questions

There’s a lot to learn about your medicines. When you’re talking with your doctor or pharmacist about a new medicine, many people ask what the medicine is for and how much they have to take. You may also want to ask how to store it, if you should take it with food or not, and what to do if you miss a dose.

“I think that one of the biggest pieces of advice I could give someone is to listen to your body. If something feels off, don’t ever sit on it – there more than likely is something the doctor or pharmacist can do to either help or ease your mind,” Greg suggests.


Need more tips for managing your medicines? Talk to your doctor or pharmacist. Or call the Be The Match® Patient Support Center, which provides support, information and resources for patients, caregivers and families before, during and after transplant.

CALL: 1 (888) 999-6743
Monday through Friday, 8 a.m. – 5 p.m. Central Time

TODAY Show celebrates donors for “sharing kindness”

Posted January 9th, 2017 by Be The Match and filed in News
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Anna, marrow transplant recipient, with her mom.

Anna, marrow transplant recipient, with her mom

NBC’s TODAY Show recently featured two courageous transplant patients: the young woman, Markel, who met her life-saving marrow donor, Shauna for the first time in New York, and 7-year-old Anna, who received her transplant last fall.

When they first learned that they needed marrow transplants, both Markel and Anna had family members tested to see if they could donate, but neither Markel’s twin brother nor Anna’s 4-year-old sister was a match. They would each need to find a stranger who would be a genetic match—and be willing and available to donate.

They turned to Be The Match for help, and from a registry of 13.5 million potential donors, Anna had just two ideal matches—but hopes were dashed when both of them turned out to be unavailable to donate.

Anna’s only hope was to choose the next best match, despite an increased risk of complications. Fortunately, an appropriately matched European donor was found and Anna received her life-saving transplant. Today she is doing well.

Markel and her donor, Shauna were able to meet and celebrate in person amidst hugs and tears of joy. “I can’t thank her enough for sharing her

Transplant patient Markel meeting her marrow donor Shauna

Transplant patient, Markel meeting her marrow donor, Shauna

kindness towards me and I urge everyone else to share their kindness, even the littlest amount that you have,” said Markel.

“It was honestly a very painless and easy process,” said Markel’s donor, Shauna. “It was just such an incredible thing to think, ‘wow, there’s someone out there who has my blood and cells in her, and that helped her beat this terrible disease.’”

Anna’s family also hopes to meet their donor, but they must remain anonymous to each other for at least a year. “I think about our donor a lot,” said Melissa, Anna’s mom. “So I hope to meet him one day, and tell him from the bottom of my heart how grateful I am to him for saving our daughter’s life.”

“It started with swabbing a cheek, and ended up being a long life for a beautiful little girl,” said Tim, Anna’s dad. “This year we’ve received random acts of kindness, deliberate acts of kindness, and anonymous acts of kindness. I think a good thing for our family, this year and beyond, is to share kindness.”

You too can share kindness and make a difference in patients’ lives.

See the full Today Show segment

A transplant delivers a cure … and a new path in life

Posted January 9th, 2017 by Be The Match and filed in Patient Stories
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At 19 years old, Shane was making plans for his life, which included starting his second year of college. Then about a week before school started, Shane woke up feeling miserable. What seemed like a bad cold or the flu turned out to be something much more serious. Doctors found Shane’s blood counts were extremely low. He had aplastic anemia.

His doctor immediately admitted him to the hospital. After trying another treatment first, transplant was Shane’s best hope for a cure. He had his transplant just a few months later. His recovery hasn’t been easy, but his transplant journey led him down a new path that he now loves.

Here are Shane’s own words on how he found his new path:

Shane, transplant recipient

Shane, transplant recipient

“When I found out I had aplastic anemia it came as quite a surprise. I was a very active person, and I’d felt fine until I woke up one day with a fever and sore throat. Recovery from transplant has definitely had its ups and downs. Six months after my transplant, the steroids caused me to be about 60 pounds heavier than I’d ever been. I had some skin issues that fortunately did not turn out to be GVHD. I was going back to the hospital about once a week for checkups. It was hard to deal with.

“I was used to being social and active, and I was stuck in the house. I couldn’t be in the sunlight and I was uncomfortable in my own skin. We had to be careful with who came to see me because my immune system was still recovering, but it helped to have visits from friends.

“I didn’t always deal with the emotional aspects of recovery very well. Looking back, I should have taken better care of my mental health and reached out to a counselor or someone who could help me.

“Finally in September, I was able to start volunteering at my local community arts center again. It was a saving grace to have some responsibility outside the house. But at the same time, I was dealing with another disappointment. I couldn’t go back to college because of setbacks in my recovery. Thinking about going back was what had kept me going. I took it pretty hard, but the arts center scheduled me for more time and took me on as a volunteer intern, so that helped.

“I also started tutoring adults working on their GED. And I started volunteering at a local crisis center. Over time, the crisis center offered me a paid position. Now 3 years after transplant, I’m doing pretty well. My anxieties aren’t about my transplant anymore but like those of any 23-year-old asking, ‘What am I going to do with my life?’ I don’t feel alone anymore in feeling like, ‘What’s next?’ I love my job at the crisis center, and I’ve discovered that this is the type of work I want to keep doing in my life.

“My life took a different path than I expected, but it’s led to something good and I’m thankful for that.”


While recovery is different for everyone, most people will have one or more setbacks.

Here are 2 strategies others have found helpful to cope with setbacks:

  • Meet with a counselor or therapist
  • Talk about your recovery with other transplant recipients ─ at your hospital or through Be The Match®

Have questions about recovery and want to talk with someone who’s been there? Our Peer Connect program can help.
We’ll put you in touch with one of our trained volunteers — who are transplant recipients and caregivers — to answer your questions and share their own transplant experiences. The program is available to both transplant recipients and caregivers and we will do our best to find someone that most closely matches your situation (based on age, disease, etc.) Talking with other transplant recipients and caregivers can help answer questions such as:

  • How long did it take to recover?
  • What is your life like after transplant?

Volunteers are available to talk by phone or email. Request a connection now.

Villanova Donors Honored at Under Armour All-America Football Game

Posted December 28th, 2016 by Be The Match and filed in News
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Sunday marks the tenth-annual Under Armour All-America Football Game that features more than 90 of the nation’s best high school football players. Three former Villanova football players – all of whom have donated bone marrow to a patient in need – are traveling to Orlando for the game and will attend player practices, skills drills and will have a chance to talk to the players. They will also be recognized during halftime to honor their life-saving donation.

C.J., Jacob, and Jake all joined Be The Match Registry® and within three months last year, they all donated to a patient in need.

It’s no coincidence that all three of these young men come from Villanova. The Wildcats’ head football coach, Andy Talley, is an avid supporter of Be The Match and co-created the organization’s “Get in the Game. Save a Life.” (GITG) initiative which encourages on-campus donor recruitment, largely supported by college athletes. More than 75 other college football programs have enlisted to participate in GITG which has led to nearly 71,000 new registry members, more than 300 of whom have matched with and donated to a patient in need. Talley is retiring after this season, but his commitment to getting more committed young donors on the registry remains strong.

“With a lot more time on my hands, I am looking forward to increasing awareness and recruiting a ton of coaches to join our Get in the Game initiative,” said Talley. “It is my dream to have every college football team nationwide host a drive and join our passion of saving lives.”

C.J., Jacob and Jake are excited to speak about their experience with the soon-to-be college athletes.

“When I joined I felt that I would be a match for someone,” says CJ. “I knew that there was a need to increase diversity of the registry and they were looking for Black or African American donors.” Overall, CJ is the sixth person who played for Talley to be a donor. And he’s the first African-American.

“The first time it really hit me about what was happening was when I asked a nurse what would have happened if I had decided not to donate,” says Jacob. “She told me that the patient wouldn’t have had a chance to survive and would have died.” Jacob was humbled. “The patient was literally going to receive a piece of me so that he could have a chance to live,” he says.

Jake says that the experience was life-changing. “It wasn’t hard and it is not painful!,” he says. “I encourage everyone to join the registry.”

The Under Armour All-America Football Game is the first of a series of sports-focused sponsorships Be The Match has planned in 2017, all in the hopes of getting committed young men to join the registry.

For more information about marrow donation, and the need for young men to join the registry, visit